|  | |  | Getting Marriage Ready: Following the Guidelines in the Quran and Sunnah By Wendy Díaz Marriage in Islam is often romanticized and portrayed as simple, but it involves complexities that must be carefully explored to ensure that no one is taken advantage of and that young people are fully prepared for the responsibilities it entails. Sadly, in the past decade, there have been growing concerns about a Muslim "marriage crisis" in the West, with single, divorced, and widowed Muslims finding it increasingly difficult to find suitable spouses. Additionally, divorce rates are on the rise, so even those who do get married face a higher risk of encountering problems. Preparing in advance is crucial for marriage-ready youth and families to handle potential challenges. |
| | | Parenting Tip Marriage in Islam is a serious commitment that impacts both individuals and families. Making preparations physically, emotionally, and spiritually leads to good choices, skill building, and connections to resources and support that nurture lasting bonds. |
| |  | Having Realistic Expectations about Marriage By Miriam Mohamed Marriage is not merely a legal contract but a profound bond rooted in mutual respect, and compassion. The Holy Quran and Sunnah of the Prophet Muhammed, peace and blessings be upon him, offer guidance on fostering a healthy and fulfilling marital relationship, emphasizing the importance of realistic expectations. Understanding these principles can help couples navigate the complexities of marriage while nurturing a harmonious and lasting partnership. |
| | | Inspiration “Sometimes the person that excites you most isn't necessarily going to make the best husband or wife. It takes a lot to see past the glamor and glitter when you're looking to get married and look for someone who's going to be a loving companion that will stand by your side no matter what and better you while also seeking to be bettered by you.” Sheikh Dr. Omar Suleiman, Yaqeen Institute |
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|  | What's love got to do with it? Guidance for Parents of Marriage-Ready Youth By Wendy Díaz As parents, living through the changes from actively raising our children to witnessing them embark on their own marital journey can be emotionally challenging. Yet, amidst the bittersweet moments of letting go, we can find solace in the wisdom of Islamic guidance. Writer Wendy Díaz collects details and tips shared by parents who have walked this path with their own adult children. It makes for an interesting and inspiring read. |
| | | Islamic Guidance “O mankind, fear your Lord, who created you from one soul and created from it its mate and dispersed from both of them many men and women…” (Surah An-Nisa, 4:1) |
| |  | Marriage Education Is a Must for Single and Engaged Muslims By Dr. Aneesah Nadir Being a spouse and a parent are among the most important jobs you’ll ever have. Marriage education, premarital advisement and counseling can help singles and engaged people obtain the knowledge and skills they need to be successful wives and husbands and have healthy marriages. Dr. Aneesah Nadir is a veteran counselor, author, and founder of Before the Nikah Marriage Preparation Institute. She suggests that anyone considering marriage needs to focus their attention on specific areas to build skills themselves and that can be the topic of inquiry about potential partners. |
| | | Preparing for Marriage Young people, both men and women, can prepare for marriage according to these guidelines: - Understanding Rights and Responsibilities
- Seeking Knowledge
- Building a Strong Foundation
- Involving Families
- Financial Planning
- Praying for Guidance
For more details about each of these preparations, read here. |
| |  | Book Review: You Just Don't Understand - Men and Women in Conversation By Umm Ahmed Bridging communication gaps is the epitome of a successful relationship - whether it is between spouses, colleagues at work, siblings, or a parent and a child. You Just Don't Understand: Men and Women in Conversion, written by Deborah Tannen, studies the conversational styles between men and women and helps break the stereotypical ways of perceiving messages from the opposite gender. Owing to its popularity and efforts toward explaining cross-cultural exchanges between men and women to a global audience, it has been translated into 31 languages! Read the review and learn why there are so many conflicts and misunderstandings. |
| | | | Online Resources Getting to Know Someone for Marriage - Here are some pointers from marriage counselor Munira Lekovic Ezzeldine about questions that need to be asked when you are considering someone for marriage. Half Our Deen Is Focused on Marriage - There are many resources to help Muslim adults find partners and this resource is a great place to start. How to Treat Your Wife in Islam? This article by Ibrahim Bowers nicely lays out all of the important responsibilities of a Muslim husband. Fundamentals of a Happy Marriage - Writer Shahina Siddiqui spells out 21 characteristics of a happy marriage (all starting with the letter “F”). See how many have you accomplished in your marriage? |
| |  | Adam's World Video: Count Your Blessings Adam’s day wasn’t going as planned. He noticed his little sister Aneesah counting everything around her but didn’t realize why at first. Come to find out, she was teaching him about being grateful! The Arabic letter “Baa” for Barakah and the English letter “B” for Blessing are featured. A nasheed by Ilyas Mao called Remembering Allah also complements the lesson. (8:19) |
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|  | The Sound Vision Foundation has been a trusted source of Islamic knowledge for more than 30 years. Our work with the world-renowned puppets Adam and Aneesah pioneered creative programming for Muslim children, encouraging them to learn about and love their religion. We continue to bring sound content and engaging programs that stimulate minds, touch hearts, and strive to fulfill our mission of raising better Muslims, better neighbors, and better citizens. This latest effort is designed to support and empower Muslim parents to do the same. |
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