|  | |  | An Islamic Guide to Conflict Resolution By Wendy Diaz Family life can get messy, particularly in the face of conflicts. Among the many hats that mothers and fathers wear, they must also be skilled in the art of conflict management. Disagreements in the home can arise between husband and wife, siblings, in-laws, and other extended relatives. If not handled properly, these tensions can lead to long-term resentment and broken relationships. As Muslims, we are reminded that family bonds are sacred and must be protected. Allah says in the Quran: “O humanity! Be mindful of your Lord Who created you from a single soul, and from it He created its mate, and through both He spread countless men and women. And be mindful of Allah—in Whose Name you appeal to one another—and ˹honour˺ family ties. Surely Allah is ever Watchful over you.” (Quran 4:1) |
| | | Parenting Tip Conflict with non-Muslim parents: Take the initiative to educate parents about Islam, its teachings, and practices. Providing reliable resources, books, or inviting parents to attend interfaith events or discussions can help dispel misconceptions and build a foundation of understanding. |
| |  | Steps for Resolving Common Parent-Teacher Conflicts By Tayaabah Qazi As a teacher mentor and supervisor, I often would engage teachers in case studies of common parent-teacher conflicts. We would read from the scripts while role playing. The purpose of the case studies was for teachers to see the intricacies of the common complaints from the parents as well as observe human psychology. The emphasis of such activities was to learn to resolve a conflict in an amicable way, keeping the welfare of the child as the utmost priority. Though parent engagement is a regular part of teacher training, there are not enough resources for parents to learn how to advocate for their child when a conflict arises. For a parent, when the child is aggrieved, no issue is too small. It is human nature to feel the pain and misery of your child, and protect their interest, right and wellbeing with every fiber of your being. However, the smallest of the issues can become too big to handle if the matter is presented solely as an emotional response. |
| | | Inspiration And if two factions among the believers should fight, then make settlement between the two. But if one of them oppresses the other, then fight against the one that oppresses until it returns to the ordinance of Allāh. And if it returns, then make settlement between them in justice and act justly. Indeed, Allāh loves those who act justly - Surah Al-Hujurat 49:9-10 |
| |  | Breaking the Silence: Encouraging Open Communication and Emotional Expression in our Homes By Umm Ahmed Overcoming the inhibitions that prevent emotional expression can be a difficult process, but it is nevertheless, possible. This is because, as humans, we possess the ability to modify our typical reactions to emotions and experiences depending on our level of comfort. For instance, we may find it easier to express our emotions with trusted family members and friends, in a safe and supportive environment. This can help us to become more emotionally aware and improve our skills in identifying and expressing our feelings. However, even with a supportive network, some individuals may still struggle to emotionally connect with others and may require consistent intervention until they develop these skills effortlessly. And, this is where reframing our perspective as a family can go a long way in enabling us to express our emotions more openly and create a supportive home environment. By taking the time to explore the following areas together, we can strengthen our bonds as individuals, parents, and caregivers, and set an example for our children to mirror. |
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| | Statistics On Parenting Statistics show that 26% of teens have experienced a conflict with a friend stemming from online interactions, with older teens more likely to be in romantic relationships where conflicts can occur. A separate study indicated that when resolving conflicts, 40.54% of adolescents chose compromise, 21.62% preferred rivalry, and only 16.22% used cooperation. Pew Research |
| |  | Tips for Teens Navigating Through Heated Public Discourse By Mahasin D. Shamsid-Deen Teens and adolescents might find a message in this fictional classic. The current situation in the U.S. sparks heated public discourse and debate at levels not seen since the 1960’s Vietnam war era. As in the 1960’s, teenagers find themselves discussing and debating the ethics and consequences of ICE raids in immigrant community, presidential overreach in civil rights, suppression of free speech from political opponents to president Trump, glorification and celebration of racist and Islamophobic media personalities, reorganization of voting districts for political gain, and financial and material support for the ongoing famine and genocide taking place in Gaza. Truly this represents the worst of times and an age of foolishness where the people are being distracted by the skilled media magicians of a corrupt pharaoh. |
| | |  | Adam’s World Video: Adam Stands Up to the Bully |
| | |  | | The Sound Vision Foundation has been a trusted source of Islamic knowledge for more than 30 years. Our work with the world-renowned puppets Adam and Aneesah pioneered creative programming for Muslim children, encouraging them to learn about and love their religion. We continue to bring sound content and engaging programs that stimulate minds, touch hearts, and strive to fulfill our mission of raising better Muslims, better neighbors, and better citizens. This latest effort is designed to support and empower Muslim parents to do the same. |
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